I made a very interesting discovery yesterday morning.
I started riding during a break between two lessons. We had gotten about 10-15 min of work in and my gelding was going beautifully, I was really pleased.
Lesson started and within minutes my guy was very uncomfortable, he is a bit of worrier and this particular instructor is a "screamer". Looking back I now realize that Sunday mornings, while this particular lesson is going on, my rides are always less than satisfactory. (BTW, I've bumped into this lesson on and off since this past Dec.)
Part of me says "work thru it", he needs to get used to it.
Part of me says, try ear plugs. I could also try and re-arrange my morning, so that I ride earlier, but that's not always an option. Any thoughts?
I think it depends on what you eventually want out of your horse. If you ever plan on going to a horse show, I would just "grin and bear it" in this case. There are many a show scene that has situations just like that, and at that moment is when you need to be your best. I know it stinks to have to work through because you're not getting any attention by your horse, but it can be helpful to desensitize him.
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I agree with Quest 52. It may be a good learning experience for your horse. I'd try to push through if you plan on showing (loudspeakers at shows will probably be worse). Another thought is that you may be tensing up a lot during these lessons because the instructor is stressing YOU out which is then influencing your horse. Stay calm and centered yourself and breathe deeply during your lesson to see if it changes anything.
shg - he just turned 11. We've been in the same barn for about four years - but, I just bought him in December - he was one of my trainers' horses. So, he is on familiar ground. This instructor is new - she started giving lessons on Sunday mornings about the same time I bought my guy.
Do YOU get anxious listenning to this particular trainer? I am wondering if it is more than just the horse reacting, in which case ear plugs for the horse won't help....maybe you both need a set (that would be a hint for the coach if everyone who rides while she is teaching wears ear plugs!)